Sunday, May 8, 2022

MOTHER'S DAY 2022

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A Happy Mother’s Day to all the mums out there.
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Some Mother’s Day Facts and trivia . . .
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Mother’s Day is celebrated on different dates in different countries.

In Australia, Mother's Day is celebrated on the second Sunday in May. Australia celebrated Mother’s Day for the first time in 1910 with special church services, however, it was not popularly observed until the 1920s.

The United Kingdom celebrates Mother's Day on the Fourth Sunday in Lent (27 March 2022), the day having its roots in the religious Mothering Sunday celebration and being originally unrelated to the international Mother's Day holiday. Most historians believe that Mothering Sunday evolved from a medieval practice of visiting one's mother church annually.

The United States also celebrates Mother's Day on the second Sunday in May.
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The day is not just a celebration of mothers. It is also a celebration of motherhood, maternal bonds and the influence of mothers in society.
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News report Saturday May 5, 2022:

A transgender activist is calling for Mother's Day to be renamed to reflect how men are now classified as giving birth. Norrie May-Welby, who was born a male and had gender reassignment surgery at age 28, said the term 'mother' was not exclusive to females

According to Norrie:
'Mother' is a verb. One can be mothering without being a biological birther. Mother's Day, before Hallmark hijacked it, was Mothering Sunday, when one returned to the church one was baptised in.
Norrie has suggested the day be renamed 'Nurturer's Day'.

Norrie, 60, won a High Court battle in 2014 to be identified as belonging to neither gender in New South Wales. In a unanimous decision, the High Court allowed the state's Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages to register a person's sex as 'non-specific'.

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Ancient myths allude to the fact that Greeks and Romans celebrated Mother's Day by honouring the goddess Cybele, personifying Mother Earth (Gaia) and the goddess of fertility, and Rhea, mother of the Gods.
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In 1870 female activist, writer and poet Julia Ward (who wrote the “Battle Hymn of the Republic”) suggested a day of peace and strongly advocated other women to stand up against war. From this plea she was able to get Boston to recognise mothers on the second Sunday of June.
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Anna Jarvis, who never had any children, wanted to carry out her own mother’s wishes of having a day just for mothers. She tirelessly campaigned until in 1914 President Woodrow Wilson signed a Joint Resolution designating the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day.

Jarvis later became campaigned against the commercialisation of Mother’s Day. By the early 1920s, Hallmark Cards and other companies had started selling Mother's Day cards. Jarvis believed that the companies had misinterpreted and exploited the idea of Mother's Day and that the emphasis of the holiday was on sentiment, not profit. As a result, she organised boycotts of Mother's Day. Jarvis argued that people should appreciate and honour their mothers through handwritten letters expressing their love and gratitude, instead of buying gifts and pre-made cards. At one of her protests she was arrested.
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By the way:

In 1912, Anna Jarvis trademarked the phrase "Second Sunday in May, Mother's Day, Anna Jarvis, Founder".

She specifically insisted that "Mother's" should "be a singular possessive, for each family to honour its own mother, not a plural possessive commemorating all mothers in the world."
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In certain traditional branches of Christianity, the holiday is strongly associated with revering the Virgin Mary.

In Islam there is no concept of Mother's Day, but the Quran teaches that children should give priority to loving their mother over their father.

In Hindu tradition, Mother's Day is called "Mata Tirtha Aunshi" or "Mother Pilgrimage fortnight", and is celebrated in countries with a Hindu population, especially in Nepal, where mothers are honoured with special foods.

In Buddhism, the festival of Ullambana (Ghost Festival) is derived from the story of Maudgalyayana and his mother.
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Carnations are very popular flowers for Mother’s Day and are thought to be made from the tears of Jesus’ mother Mary when she wept at his feet the day He was crucified.

Pink and red carnations are given to mother’s that are still alive, while white ones are for those that have passed away.

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In 1939 in Lima, Peru, the youngest mother on record delivered a baby boy by C-section. She was 5 years-old and the baby was raised as her brother.
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Though there has always been some confusion over who exactly is the oldest mother in the world, there are quite a few women who have given birth at ages that would surprise us. Rajo Devi Lohan, from a remote village of Hisar, Haryana, India, hit the headlines in 2008 when she gave birth to a baby girl named Naveen, following the controversial IVF treatment. Lohan was 70 when she gave birth.


Rajo Devi Lohan with her son

Another report claims that Omkari Panwar, also from India, gave birth to twins at the age of 66 in December 2006. She died in 2009. Till then, Satyabhama Mahapatra, a retired schoolteacher in India was the oldest mother when she gave birth to a baby boy in April 2003, at the age of 65.
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Before Octomom (Nadya Suleman) Bobbie McCaughey had septuplets – four boys and three girls – on November 19, 1997. The babies were born via C-section after 31 weeks.
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Nadya Suleman (1975 - ), known as Octomom in the media, gave birth to octuplets in January 2009. All survived. In March 2019, the Australian current affairs program Sunday Night interviewed Suleman for the octuplets’ tenth birthday. She conceded that although at the time she was "absolutely [...] young, dumb, irresponsible, selfish, reckless", she does not regret any of her children. The feature noted that the household is run with "military precision", and the children are "happy, healthy, and well-mannered".


Octomum Nadya Suleman with the octuplets

Suleman had married in 1996, separated in 2000 and divorced in 2008. Suleman began IVF treatments at age 21 in 1997, under the supervision of Dr. Michael Kamrava. In 2001 Suleman gave birth to her first child, a son. In 2002 she gave birth to her first daughter. Suleman continued IVF treatments which resulted in three further pregnancies, including one set of fraternal twins, for a total of six children: four sons, two daughters.

The circumstances of their high order multiple birth led to controversy in the field of assisted reproductive technology as well as an investigation by the Medical Board of California of the fertility specialist involved. In 2011 it was found that Dr Kamrava had transferred twelve embryos, which the board found to be an "extreme" departure from standard of care. After reviewing Suleman's case, in combination with three other cases, the Medical Board of California voted to revoke Kamrava's medical licence.


Dr Kamrava and Nadya Suleman
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The shortest span between two babies is by mother Jayne Bleackley, who gave birth to a son on September 3, 1999. Then only 208 days later gave birth to her daughter on March 30, 2000.

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Elizabeth Ann Buttle gave birth to her first child (a girl) on May 19,1956. Then when she was 60 years-old, she gave birth to her son on November 20, 1997, making the babies 41 years 185 days apart.


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The highest officially recorded number of children born to one mother is 69, to the first wife of Feodor Vassilyev (1707-1782) of Shuya, Russia. Between 1725 and 1765, in a total of 27 confinements, she gave birth to 16 pairs of twins, seven sets of triplets, and four sets of quadruplets. 67 of them survived infancy.


Feodor Vassilyev with all his children
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Saturday, May 7, 2022

QUOTE FOR THE DAY


“I learned to look more upon the bright side of my condition, and less upon the dark side, and to consider what I enjoyed, rather than what I wanted: and this gave me sometimes such secret comforts, that I cannot express them; and which I take notice of here, to put those discontented people in mind of it, who cannot enjoy comfortably what God has given them, because they see and covet something that he has not given them. All our discontents about what we want appeared to me to spring from the want of thankfulness for what we have.”

― Daniel Defoe, Robinson Crusoe





SONG SPOT: BELFAST MILL

(Dedicated to Byter and regular contributor Tim B, who hails from Georgia, USA. The dedication will become clearer later in this post).

Background:

A few weeks ago I posted some links to the The Fureys and other artists singing The Reason I Left Mullingar.

I made the point that the lyrics, which I posted, were poignant and contained a lot of meaning.

That is also the case with another Fureys’ song, Belfast Mill, the message still resonating today.

Life in medieval England revolved around local villages under the protection of the feudal barons and their armies. There was no mass transport, no news transfer except by word of mouth, no social interaction beyond the village. Indeed the wedding expression “best man” has its origins in the intended bridegroom selecting a capable wingman, ie bodyguard, whilst the groom kidnapped his future bride from her family and often from another village. Once kidnapped, the wedding happened immediately.

The economic wellbeing of the villages came to rely on the local mills, whether of grains, paper or textiles. The serfs and producers brought their products to the mills which broke the product down and converted it into what was wanted. Other business grew up around the mills. If the local mill shut down, it was disastrous for the village and the larger surrounding countryside.

That continues today, one only has to look at the effect on Chicago of the car manufacturing industries having shut down. The same applies in Australia with the closure of car plants, the cessation of steel making and the withdrawal of major retailers from towns and cities, often as a result of loss of business to overseas online retailers.

Look also at the effects on business of the lockdowns and quarantines. Each business that has closed has a ripple effect on employees, their families and the business community as a whole.

Belfast Mill

The song Belfast Mill contains the lines:

The mill has shut down, 'twas the only life I know,
Tell me where will I go, tell me where will I go.

I'm too old to work and I'm too young to die,
Tell me where will I go now, my family and I.

So sad.

Here is the full set of lyrics:

At the east end of town, at the foot of the hill,
There's a chimney so tall, it says Belfast mill,
But there's no smoke at all, coming out of the stack,
For the mill has shut down, and its never coming back

[Chorus]
And the only tune I hear is the sound of the wind,
As she blows through the town weave and spin,
weave and spin.

There's no children playing in the dark narrow streets,
For the loom has shut down it's so quiet, I cant sleep.

And the only tune I hear is the sound of the wind,
As she blows through the town weave and spin,
weave and spin.

The mill has shut down, 'twas the only life I know,
Tell me where will I go, tell me where will I go.

And the only tune I hear is the sound of the wind,
As she blows through the town weave and spin,
weave and spin.

I'm too old to work and I'm too young to die,
Tell me where will I go now, my family and I.

And the only tune I hear is the sound of the wind,
As she blows through the town weave and spin,
weave and spin.

At the east end of town, at the foot of the hill,
There's a chimney so tall, it says Belfast mill,
But there's no smoke at all, coming out of the stack,
For the mill has shut down, and its never coming back

And the only tune I hear is the sound of the wind,
As she blows through the town weave and spin,
weave and spin

And the only tune I hear is the sound of the wind,
As she blows through the town weave and spin,
weave and spin
As she blows through the town weave and spin,
weave and spin

Hear The Fureys and Davey Arthur sing Belfast Mill by clicking on:


Aragon Mill

‘Belfast Mill‘ was adapted from ‘Aragon Mill‘, written by Si Kahn, an activist and celebrated musician in bluegrass and folk music circles.  His song laments the loss of mill village culture in the small Georgia town.

The song was recorded and retitled “Belfast Mill” by The Fureys.

Si Kahn wrote about the connection to the Fureys' song:
. . . this great version of my song “Aragon Mill” by Davey Arthur and the Fureys. I wrote it in 1970 after spending several days in the town of Aragon, Georgia, right after the company closed the mill and threw 700 hard working people out of their jobs, some never to work for pay again. 

I was working with the United Mine Workers of America (UMWA), the coal miners’ union, at the time, and asked to go there by the Textile Workers Union of America (TWUA) to see if anything might be done about the mill closing, since I was on that day the closest labor/labour organizer to Aragon. 

I recorded the song in 1974 for my first album “New Wood,” which was released on New Year’s Day 1974, 40 years ago. 

Check out also other great versions of this song by Andy Irvine & Planxty; the original Red Clay Ramblers; Hazel Dickens; Otto Groote (in Plattdeutsch); 4 Yn Y Bar (in Welsh); Renaud (in French); Dolores Keene; the Dublin City Ramblers; and Peggy Seeger. 

Last year I worked with Aragon’s Mayor Ken Suffridge to start the first Aragon Mill JamFest, in the hopes of bringing some attention and maybe even a few jobs to this town that was hit so hard by corporate greed, as are so many places all over the world today. 

Thanks to all of you who fight back! 

In solidarity, Si
Lyrics to Aragon Mill by Si Kahn:

Chorus: And the only tune I hear,
Is the sound of the wind,
As it blows through the town,
Weave and spin, weave and spin

At the east end of town, at the foot of the hill
Stands a chimney so tall that says "Aragon Mill."
But there's no smoke at all coming out of the stack.
The mill has shut down and it ain't a-coming back.

Well, I'm too old to work, and I'm too young to die.
Tell me, where shall we go, My old gal and I?
There's no children at all in the narrow empty street.
The mill has closed down; it's so quiet I can't sleep.

Yes, the mill has shut down; it's the only life I know
Tell me, where will I go, Tell me, where will I go?
And the only tune I hear, is the sound of the wind
As it blows through the town,
Weave and spin, weave and spin.

See and hear Si Kahn sing Aragon Mill by clicking on:


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Here is a version by the Dublin City Ramblers:

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Gallery:


The Fureys and Davey Arthur


Si Kahn


Aragon Mill


Another view of Aragon Mill

By the way, after the plant shut down in 1970, it was bought in 1972 by Integrated Products, which operated it until 1989. In 1990 Diamond Rug and Carpet purchased the plant and operated it until 1994. The plant remained empty until 1998 when brothers Brian and Kirk Spears purchased the mill and used it in the production of pillows and wooden pallets until 2002, when fire destroyed the complex.



Friday, May 6, 2022

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

 


FUNNY FRIDAY

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SOME HUMOUR:

Sent by John P, thanks John . . .

(A brief explanation that in the US, they call a full stop a period).

A kindergarten class had a homework assignment to find out something exciting and relate it to the class the next day.

When the time came to present what they'd found, the first little boy the teacher called on walked up to the front of the class, and with a piece of chalk, made a small white dot on the blackboard and sat back down.

Puzzled, the teacher asked him what it was.

'It's a period,' he replied.

'I can see that,' said the teacher, 'but what is so exciting about a period?'

'Darned if I know,' chirped the little boy ... 'but this morning my sister was missing one, my mother fainted, my dad had a heart attack, and the boy next door joined the Navy.
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I broke up with a girl once because she was having hallucinations.

She said "Carl, I.. can't see you anymore"...

That was weird. I was like- "Babe, I'm standing right here."

Then she said "No, you don't understand... I'm seeing someone else," which was really bizarre because it was just the two of us in the room.

I had to break it off after that.
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The wine taster at an old vineyard died. A homeless guy, looking ragged and dirty, came to apply. He persuaded the manager to give him a try.

The guy was given a glass of wine. He swirled, smelled, sipped and spit. “It's a red wine, Merlot, three years old, grown on the South slope and matured in oak barrels," he said. "Impressive," said the manager.

The man is given another. "Still a red wine, Cabernet, eight years old, from the Northeast slope, stored in a steel vat.”

The manager was amazed. He winked at his secretary. The secretary understood and brought out a glass of urine. The man tasted it and said "Blonde, 27 years old, three months pregnant, and if I don't get this job, I'll tell who the father is!"
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BREAKING NEWS from the courtroom!

Amber Heard confessed to having a child with Charlie Sheen. The child went to live with his father and took his name.

Both parents agreed the child should be sheen and not heard.
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Late one night a drunk guy is showing some friends around his brand new apartment...

The last stop is the bedroom, where a big brass gong sits next to the bed.

"What's that gong for?" the friend asks him.

"It's not a gong," the drunk replies. "It's a talking clock."

"How does it work?"

The guy picks up a hammer, gives the gong an ear-shattering pound, and steps back.

Suddenly, someone on the other side of the wall screams, "Hey arsehole! It's 3:30 in the fucking morning!"

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A guy goes into the US Postal Services to apply for a job.

The interviewer asks him, "Are you allergic to anything?" He replies, "Yes - coffee."

"Have you ever been in the military service? "Yes," he says, "I was in Iraq for two years."

The interviewer says "That will give you 5 extra points towards employment."

Then he asks "Are you disabled in any way?" John says “Yes. A bomb exploded near me and I lost both of my testicles."

The interviewer grimaces and then says, "O.K. You've got enough points for me to hire you right now. Our normal hours are from 8:00 am t0 4.00pm. You can start tomorrow from 10.00am every day."

John is puzzled and asks, "If the work hours are from 8:00am to 4:00pm, why do you want me to start here from10.00am?"

"This is a government job," the interviewer says. "For the first two hours, we just stand around drinking coffee and scratching our nuts. No point you coming in for that."

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LIMERICK OF THE WEEK:

There was a young parson of Harwich,
Tried to grind his betrothed in a carriage.
She said, "No, you young goose,
Just try self-abuse.
And the other we'll try after marriage."

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GALLERY:




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RELIGION SPOT:

God decides it’s finally time to send Jesus back to Earth.

*poof* All of a sudden, Jesus finds himself on the side of a road in the middle of rural America. He sticks out his thumb for a ride and before long a man in a truck stops to give him a lift.

Not revealing his true identity, Jesus thanks the man for stopping.

Jesus: Wow thank you sir, so many people just ignored me standing there.

Man: Don’t worry about it! That’s just what good people do.

After a few minutes driving the man leans over,

Man: Hey, I have this sandwich here, ya want some?

Jesus: Wow, thank you sir, that’s so kind of you! I’d love some.

A few more minutes pass and the man leans over again,

Man: Hey I have a few beers in the cooler back there, want one?

Amazed by the man’s kindness Jesus replies,

Jesus: Wow sure! I’d love one. Thank you again.

After a few more miles down the road the man looks around suspiciously and says,

Man: Hey…I uh, have a little joint here. Want to take a few puffs with me?

Jesus pauses for a second and replies,

Jesus: Ya know what, why not!

So the man and Jesus drive down the road smoking the fattest joint listening to music and having a good time. Finally, Jesus speaks up,

Jesus: Okay listen! I can’t keep quiet any longer! You have been so kind, so nice, I want to tell you…I’m Jesus! God sent me down here to help the people and you’ve just been so kind. What can I do to repay you? Anything!

The man looks at Jesus with a grin on his face and says, “Good shit, huh?”

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CORN CORNER:

I thought my girlfriend was joking when she said she wanted a Monkees-themed wedding.
Then I saw her face.

My girlfriend is really poor
She's always saying Please! Please leave me a loan!

What's the difference between beer nuts and deer nuts?
Beer nuts are a dollar ninety nine, deer nuts are under a buck.

If Jesus was real they wouldn't call it the crucifixion
They would call it crucifact.

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Thursday, May 5, 2022

QUOTE FOR THE DAY

 


STREET ART

French street artist scaf, also known as scaf-oner, likes to transform abandoned places using detailed realism. Not only are his works frequently scary, even terrifying, they are amazing to view. Sometimes it is hard to believe that they are not actually 3D but art on flat surfaces.

Here are examples, from: